Friday, July 7, 2023

What Have You Done For Me Lately?

 A tall handsome deeply melanated brother (DMB) humbly approached me in the market.

DMB: Can I ask you a question my sister (slightly distracted)

ME: Sure, how can I help (not sure what to expect)

DMB: My son has his friends over and they want hummus to go with their chips.  I have no idea what hummus is (engulfed in vulnerability that was tangible in that moment)

ME: Follow me (I smiled, touched the small of his back; walk him over to the hummus aisle and conducted a brief lesson on hummus)

DMB: Thank you so much.  I didn’t know what I was going to do (He smiles, proceeds to peruse the myriad of options)

This Father took a risk with a complete stranger to figure out how to fulfill his sons’ request. As I walked away the gravity of that interaction touched me in a deep place.